"I'm tired" is the new "I'm fine." You're not tired. You're not fine.
Hey, you.
I'm tired.
Are you?
I've noticed that for some people "tired" can be code for boredom or pessimism, frustration, irritation, impatience....
Sometimes it encompasses overwhelm, disappointment, doubt, or worry.
It's like when someone says, "I'm fine."
Most times...they're not fine.
LOL. Right?!
I'm tired.
So I'm a little goofy and loopy.
Not only because I haven't been sleeping well the last few nights...
Also because justice and liberation and the state of our relationships to one another and to the Earth are on my mind and weigh on my heart.
When we give everything to productivity and parenting and capitalism, what do we have to offer ourselves and our partners at the end of the day?
What do we have left to offer our communities and justice and anti-racist, pro-BIPOC, land back, pro-trans, pro-queer spaces and movements when rest, connection, and pleasure are never on the to-do list.
Sometimes when I think about what couples need to deeply connect within or in love this weekend,
I realize they need rest.
How can I support you to experience the sex you want and the intimacy you desire?
I can give you permission to play, inspire you to breathe, invite you to let go set down sit down...
BE.
Get out of the boxes that were designed to keep you exhausted, numb, and distracted.
Liberate your relationship.
Liberate your love.
Co-create your life together.
Let's do it together.
Offering so much love...and rest,
Daniela
“Healthy couples are essential to a healthy society.”
