Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Love & Connection

Co-create a HEART CONNECTION

• Without hours of pillowtalk taking away from needed sleep…

• NOT by adding to the busy and overwhelmed already happening…

• Without it feeling like a chore, burden, or responsibility…

Instead, start with clarity around how you offer love to and receive love from one another

BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to build a loving connection with your partner by clarifying your partner’s and your primary Love Languages, holding space for the details around feeling loved and loving toward one another, and invite you into experiencing the energy of joy, love, and compassion…all without it being your anniversary.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $40 per couple through January 15
Regular price: $45 per couple

FIVE Quizzes.
FIVE Frameworks.
CLARITY for Life.

For people for whom sex and intimacy is important and those who want to experience deep sexual connection with themselves and a partner or partners

THIS IS WHAT I WANT FOR YOU:

1. Love that fills you up and lights you from within

2. Sex that inspires your fullest expressions and invites you into the deepest pleasure

3. Understanding of how you’re wired and the ways in which you work

4. Clarity around what is important for you in a relationship

5. Focus on what you want to experience through partnered sex (because you can have orgasms on your own)

6. Confidence around how to pull it all together

THIS WORKSHOP IS SPECIFICALLY FOR:

• Individuals not in a relationship who want to clarify their love and pleasure.

• People who are dating and/or having casual sex who want to authentically request what they’re looking for.

• Queer, trans, heterosexual folks as well as those practicing CNM/ENM and/or additional expressions & dynamics who desire to know who they are and name what they want outside of oppressive dominant paradigms

• Couples whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity and self-awareness toward depth.

• People in a relationship who are excited to learn about themselves and what they want and need.

• Long-term committed couples who want to reconnect and are willing to learn about themselves to begin again.

• Committed couples at any stage who desire to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life.

WITH THIS EXPERIENCE YOU GET:

1. ACCESS to the five most important quizzes you need to bring clarity to your love, pleasure, and relationships

2. INSIGHT into why each one is important with a 30-minute introduction

3. SUPPORT in a small group to move through the quizzes and talk through your individual results for 30 minutes

4. ADVICE so you can apply what you've learned to your sex and intimacy right now with a 30-minute Q&A

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).

With over twenty-three years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide both to receive and offer a sense-based experience to make you feel alive again. Slow down, connect with your bodies, take your time, and delight in each sense and sensation without rushing toward a goal.

For Loving & Committed Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Early price: $30 USD per couple through December 4
Regular price: $35 USD per couple

READ MORE ABOUT THE DETAILS HERE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will support you to illuminate what’s in the dark by clarifying, connecting, and healing around your sexual selves.

For Loving Couples For Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $30 per couple through November 6
Regular price: $35 per couple

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you through a holding space training so you can be seen, heard, and understood and offer the same to your partner before moving into exploring and experiencing asking and being asked four questions for feedback before, during, and after sex.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Early price: $30 USD per couple through October 23
Regular price: $35 per couple

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to connect to yourself and your partner with a communication practice and the practice of creating an energetic couple bubble.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Early price: $30 USD per couple through October 9
Regular price: $35 per couple

Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Love & Connection

Co-create a HEART CONNECTION

• Without hours of pillowtalk taking away from needed sleep…

• NOT by adding to the busy and overwhelmed already happening…

• Without it feeling like a chore, burden, or responsibility…

Instead, start with clarity around how you offer love to and receive love from one another

BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE

Early price: $30 per couple through September 24
Regular price: $35 per couple

Click here for more information and to pay to reserve your spot.

Join me for an hour long workshop where I will guide you toward discovering and naming your various sexual edges and clarifying how to communicate them with a partner or partners with compassion and curiosity.

For Individuals in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics

Who Want To Deeply Connect, Rekindle, & Feel Radiant and Alive

Early bird: $17 USD per person through July 17
Regular price: $20 per person

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Join me for an hour long workshop where I will guide you each toward embodying three different sexual archetypes and sharing with your partner the insights they offer.

For Couples in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics

Who Want To Deeply Connect, Rekindle, & Feel Radiant and Alive

Early bird: $17 USD per person through June 19
Regular price: $20 per person

LEARN MORE HERE

Early bird: $17 per person by May 8
Regular price: $20 per person

Does it feel like if you knew how to invite more pleasure into your body, partnered sex would be better?

Does it feel like you want to be a better attuned lover?

When we’re told we have to learn what we like in order to share with our partner how they can invite us into more pleasure, it’s sooo helpful to have a framework for understanding orgasm.

We have to explore the embodiment, learn the words, and invite curiosity to be present all with an intention toward experiencing the most amount of pleasure possible in the moment. 

Join me for an hour long in-person workshop where I will guide you through:

• The formula or equation for understanding orgasm
  

• Eight holistic sex tools for expanding pleasure and capacity for orgasms and multiple orgasms
  

• Four questions to ask yourself during self-pleasure and partnered sex as well as what you can ask your partner

Whether you want to explore your sexuality on your own and/or want to improve your partnered sex, this workshop will offer you clarity around what orgasm is, eight holistic sex tools around building pleasure, and questions to ask ourselves and our partner to bolster our curiosity and confidence toward moving beyond feeling good toward feeling amazing.

INCLUSIVE & DIVERSE LANGUAGE AND GUIDANCE FOR PEOPLE IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT: 

• CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where you feel comfortable enough. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home for private experiences. For this event, you might set up a yoga mat, grab a blanket (these are provided), and a pillow on the floor. It’s up to what feels good for you.
  

• INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for you and not a community-building workshop.
  

• DESCRIPTIONS: Beginning with a sharing around an equation for orgasm, I'll then describe each of the eight holistic sex tools and four questions to ask during sexual intimacy with ourselves and/or with a partner. 
  

• SHIFTING & RESOURCING: We’ll then shift to embodiment starting with a guided meditation for setting down the outside world and connecting inward to our bodyminds. Next I'll support you to identify and connect with a resource toward enough safety to explore vulnerably and bravely.
  

• GUIDED EMBODIMENT: Through a "cold" guided meditation without activating turn on or pleasure with touch, I'll invite you to imagine yourself in an experience of sexual intimacy while guiding you through a body-based visualization of each holistic sex tool being built upon the next and the experience of being asked/asking yourself the four sex feedback questions one at a time. There will be no explicit sexuality in the room. Everyone's clothes stay on the entire time.
  

• SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the guided meditation practice will come with move, process, and begin to integrate slowly.
  

• EXPLORE AT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of how to build on this “cold” guided practice at home with self-pleasure and/or partnered sex. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).

With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow

SEX BOX: Exploring Holistic Sex Tools for Expanding Pleasure and Orgasmic Capacity

SATURDAY, May 11, 2024 from 7 - 8 pm

A HEALING PLACE WELLNESS CENTER
841 Blossom Hill Rd Suite 112-A
San Jose, CA 95123

Early bird: $17 per person by May 8
Regular price: $20 per person

Who Want To Deeply Connect, Rekindle, & Feel Radiant and Alive

Early bird: $35 USD per couple by April 10
Regular price: $40 per couple

When we love our partner and are attuned to their emotional and mental states…when they’re not good, we’re not good.

We have to learn how to hold ourselves apart from them, hold space for whatever they’re going through, and support one another through what we’re experiencing in life.

Whether you're in a new relationship or one that’s been through some things, this experience will train you how to hold space for one another, request and offer specific communication, embody deeply seeing and hearing your partner, and cultivate the experience of being deeply seen, heard, known, and supported.

FOR COUPLES IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT: 

• CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where your partner and you feel comfortable enough together. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home. For this event, you might set up two chairs, sit on a yoga mat together, or among blankets on the floor (these are provided). It’s your choice.

• INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for the two of you and not a group workshop.

• SHIFT TO CONNECT TO SELF: We’ll begin with a guided meditation for meeting yourself and resourcing within the space.

• HOLDING SPACE TRAINING: Our communication and connection-based practice will invite you to take turns being the sharer and the listener with instructions through five rounds each of playful, embodied experience.

• SHARE: The invitation will be for your partner and you to take a few minutes to share what you noticed, what you experienced, what was uncomfortable, what felt too familiar of a habit.

• DESIRES, FEARS, LOVES: Continuing with verbal guidance from me, together you’ll move through a communication and connection practice that involves holding space and taking turns inside of a structured exercise asking each other through three rounds:

  • “What do you desire around our relationship?”

  • “What do you fear around our relationship?”

  • “What do you love about me?”

• SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the energy practices will come with an invitation to hug, cuddle, or touch if both of you feel open to it.

• TAKE IT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of what to expect in the afterglow of this experience and how to take it home with you, including where you can find more information around starting a Sex Practice. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).

With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow

HOLD ON: Holding Space Training for Desires, Fears, Loves

SATURDAY, April 13, 2024 from 7 - 8 pm

A HEALING PLACE WELLNESS CENTER
841 Blossom Hill Rd Suite 112-A
San Jose, CA 95123

Early bird: $35 USD per couple by April 10
Regular price: $40 per couple

Early bird: $35 USD per couple through March 13
Regular price: $40 per couple

When we carry so much responsibility that whole villages and communities would have bolstered in the past,

We have to co-create space to recalibrate if the intimacy of deep connection, care, support, and love is important to us.

Whether you're in a relationship that’s ten months or ten years old,
This experience will support you to come back to yourselves, embrace your desires and what you each want, toss aside what’s holding you both back, and co-create the energy of partnership. 

FOR COUPLES IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT: 

• CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where your partner and you feel comfortable enough together. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home. For this event, you might set up two folding chairs, sit on a yoga mat together, or upon pillows on the floor. It’s your choice.

• INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for the two of you and not a group workshop.

• SHIFT TO CONNECT TO SELF: We’ll begin with a guided meditation for meeting yourself and resourcing within the space.

• CONNECT TO PARTNER: Continuing with verbal guidance from me, together you’ll move through a communication and connection-based couple bubble practice to a synchronized breath, eye gazing, and then soul gazing to deeply connect with one another.

• SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the energy practices will come with an invitation to hug, cuddle, or touch if both of you feel open to it.

• TAKE IT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of what to expect in the afterglow of this experience and how to take it home with you, including where you can find more information around starting a Sex Practice. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).

With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow

DEEP FEELS: Energizing & Embodying Your Couple Bubble

SATURDAY, March 16, 2024
from 7 - 8 pm

A HEALING PLACE WELLNESS CENTER
841 Blossom Hill Rd Suite 112-A
San Jose, CA 95123

Early bird: $35 USD per couple through March 13
Regular price: $40 per couple