Rates for Sex & Intimacy Coaching

 

Sex and intimacy coaching that’s trauma-informed, attachment theory-trained, and body-based requires a financial investment and a weekly time commitment to yourself and/or your partner and your relationship for a minimum of five weekly sessions.

More effective is weekly sessions for at least three-to-six months.

 

Both in-person and online rates for couples and individuals include:

  • The full weekly session time (not a therapy “hour” that’s actually 50 minutes)

  • Emailed guided audios, practices, exercises, and resources for you to engage in between sessions

  • Check-in emails for accountability and support four days after sessions

  • 12 weekly sessions within 3 months with some room for emergencies, scheduling conflicts, vacations, rest, and integration

 

COUPLES IN-PERSON

75-minute sessions
in San Jose, California

$4,920 USD flat rate
or
$984 USD deposit
& $1,312 USD per month*


COUPLES ONLINE

75-minute sessions
Online via Zoom

$4,500 USD flat rate
or
$900 USD deposit
& $1,200 USD per month*


Individuals IN-PERSON

60-minute sessions
in San Jose, California

$4,020 USD flat rate
or
$804 USD deposit
& $1,072 USD per month*


INDIVIDUALS ONLINE

60-minute sessions
Online via Zoom

$3,600 USD flat rate
or
$750 USD deposit
& $950 USD per month*


* I don't believe in an interest penalty if a deposit and payment plan works best for you; these add up to the same total number.


OUR FULL PROCESS:

  • DISCOVER: Assess before we do a consultation if we’re a good fit to work together.

  • SCHEDULE: Book a free 15-minute phone consultation at a time and on a date that works for all of us.

  • INTAKE: Answer personal questions to share a picture with me of where you’re at and where you want to go.

  • CONSULTATION: Connect in a low-risk way over the phone to share what you’re experiencing and feeling and what was the catalyst for reaching out for support; I call you.

  • AGREEMENTS: Read and review our trust agreement and service agreement (this is the online relationship one) so the expectations you can have of me and the expectations I can have of you are clear between us.

  • PAID TRIAL OR DISCOVERY SESSION: Schedule an in-person or online session where we’ll meet for a full 75-minutes for couples or a full 60-minutes for individuals for an embodied sense of what it’s like working together and to deeply clarify what you want to be experiencing and feeling around sex, love, and relationships.

  • SIGN & PAY: After we all decide we want to work together, sign the trust and service agreements if you haven’t already; pay the flat rate via Venmo, PayPal, or Square (which accepts all major credit cards and Google Pay) or set up paying the deposit and three automatic payments through Square.

  • SCHEDULE: Set up all twelve sessions on everyone’s calendars so your nervous system can soften knowing you’ve made a commitment to show up to what’s important to you every week.

  • SESSIONS: Meet to co-create a curated, desire-based journey based on your needs instead of a one-size-fits-all methodology.

  • HOME PLAY: Engage embodied exercises, practices, and exercises as well as resources to strengthen your connection to yourself and your partner.

  • ACCOUNTABILITY: Receive emails from me in between sessions to guide you to focus on and apply what you’re exploring with reminders that you have support.

  • ASSESS: After an initial three-month period, assess whether continued weekly sessions, every other week, every three weeks, once a month, or on an as-needed basis supports your integration and continued thriving.