Welcome to Warm Wintering Sex
Hey,
I am so grateful you’ve named that sex and intimacy is a priority for you and heard that sex and intimacy is a priority for your partner, too.
You’re both here with an acceptance—or at least a warm curiosity—around how the natural seasons and unnatural influences of systems of supremacy affect our love, relationships, and sex.
Winter is an especially challenging time for us when our bodies want to slow down, curl up, and rest…and capitalism wants us extract every last ounce of productivity, creativity, and labor from us.
I’m celebrating that the two of you have leaned into this cozy & honoring exploration to say yes to yourselves in this way.
On Christmas morning, on December 25, you'll receive the first of seven Warm Wintering Sex micro guided audios to slow, soften, and connect to rest with the ending of the year and to build for the year ahead.
Each day comes with simple instructions, a guided audio, and an invitation to take your experience deeper.
Here is a quick overview:
Day 1 – Soul Gazing: We begin
Day 2 – In The Arms of My Love: In order to
Day 3 – Heart Connection: With connection comes the chance
Day 4 – What Can I Offer You Right Now?: What refills your cup? What nourishes you at the roots? What revitalizes your mind, spirit, body and heart? On the heels of ___, let's fill you up with requesting and receiving…hearing and offering nourishment, delight, invigoration and play.
Day 5 – Body Connection: Noooow we're ready to really tune in.
Day 6 – Belly-to-Belly Breathing: B
Day 7 – Couple Bubble: F
The intention is to lean into the opportunity and energy between December 25 and January 6 (or later, if that's when the two of you can make the space and time) and to connect in ways that make sense for the season and circumstances…while moving toward what feels good and is pleasurable for both of you.
Slow down.
Warm up.
Cozy in.
Cuddle up.
yourselves in the heat of your hearts.
Care for what arises.
Tend to your fire.
You deserve it. You need it. You can develop the skills and capacity to turn to one another for the care, support, and love through this season and those to come.
Offering you so much love,
Daniela
P.S. I'll point out sex educator and researcher Emily Nagoski's definition of normal sex:
Sex among consenting peers, which is to say everyone involved is glad to be there and free to leave at any time with no unwanted consequences, and that includes emotional consequences, and no unwanted pain.
P.P.S. If you have any technical support needs, please email me at daniela@danielastevens.com and I will follow up with you within two business days.
Hey,
I am very humbled/grateful/excited to share with you seven practices for ripening into the best sex of your life through a Warm Wintering Sex experience.
These short, gentle and deep practices support you to experience deeper sexual connection and intimacy with yourself and with your partner or partners.
Here is what you need to know:
Every day for seven days, I will pop into your email or texts with a guided audio.
I'll let you know how long the recording is so you know how much time you might need to set aside to explore it with your partner. You can do it first thing when you wake up, midday, or before bed. Any time you both have the opportunity and energy. Make it.
On the eighth day I'll share with you next steps you can take if you're ready to go deeper.
I'll be here with you through the whole experience if you have questions or want clarifications. :)
Offering so much love on this journey,
Daniela