Step Two:
Prepare

  1. Leading up to your experience, prepare yourselves emotionally by offering your partner love in their primary Love Language and requesting love in your primary Love Language.

    This can support you both to feel resourced and grounded in loving and being loved when you arrive to your Sex Practice.

  2. Next, prepare yourselves erotically by considering what invites your partner and you into pleasure around your primary Erotic Blueprints.

Think about what you each might want to bring into the space to invite pleasure and to accelerate desire and arousal.

For example, considering the five senses may be important if your partner or you has a sensual Erotic Blueprint.

Step Two:
Setup

  1. I recommend having a body-friendly oil like coconut, almond, or sesame oil and a handtowel or two nearby.

  2. It may be important, too, to make sure you have clean hands and short nails.

  3. Prepare your mind and body for the conscious and committed opportunity to connect with your partner and engage your relationship.

  4. Blindfolds, feathers, textured items, or other creative objects might be great to have easily accessible if your partner or you have a kinky Erotic Blueprint.