Fireside Chats
Private EventS HOSTED BY YOU,
ATTENDED BY YOUR FRIENDS & COMMUNITY,
WITH AN INVITATION FOR ME TO PRESENT & GUIDE
For Sex & Intimacy Seekers Curious Around Experiencing
Deep Sexual Connection & Intimacy with Themselves and A Partner
If you are curious about deepening a connection around sex and intimacy,
feel nervous or vulnerable when it comes to learning more, and
realize you’re not ready to jump in,
it can be easier to take a step with others you know to learn more.
Instead of saying nothing or
complaining or venting with one another,
you have a sense it's time
to find an expert and take a proactive approach
to getting the support you need.
You’re in the right place if:
You talk together about what you’re experiencing, but you don’t seek help to shift or change.
You offer advice to one another, but you don’t feel knowledgable, qualified, or confident it’s helpful.
You’re hearing the same obstacles and fears coming up, but you’re having trouble naming what you want and desire.
You all sense there’s something more, different, better, deeper, but you don’t know what it is. You don’t know people who have experienced it or felt it.
You’ve shared books between you, read articles, listened to podcasts, but applying it on your own isn’t working.
You see opportunities to connect to yourself and with your partner, but you freeze, fall into unconscious patterns, and perform routines based on conditioning rather than what’s authentic to you.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
together you CAN LEARN, QUESTION, Discover, and rediscoveR
THE EXPERIENCE OF BEING
VIBRANT AND ALIVE,
THRIVING AND FLOURISHING,
confident and capable,
RESOURCED AND SUPPORTED.
FIRESIDE CHATS:
a private event hosted by you and held by me
for Sex & Intimacy Seekers
What Are Fireside Chats?
Fireside chats are an intimate opportunity to take your casual conversations to the next level.
Part gathering, part private talk.
Part wine and appetizers, part special series.
Part dinner party, part curated workshop.
They work best when the group has a common challenge or curiosity and wants to explore more amongst those who care about one another.
Here Are Some Topic Ideas:
Love: Being loved, loving, and/or feeling lovable
Cultivating self-love and self-compassion
Feeling alive in and connected to your body
Pleasure, sensuality, desire, and arousal and how to experience them more
Orgasms, different types, and how to experience them
What a jade or crystal egg is and the benefits for pelvic health and pleasure
Dating and clarifying what you want from a connection
Emotional intimacy: Feeling seen, heard, and offering others emotional presence
Relationships, communication, and connection
Sex, sexuality, sexual expression
Breathwork for emotional and physical cleansing and clarity
Sexual skills with offering and surrendering, giving and receiving,
Tantra and sacred sexuality
And you will not be alone. I am here.
Meet your Guide:
Hey, I'm Daniela.
(pronouns: she/they)
For me, nothing is more important than connection.
Whether a connection to your inner wisdom, an honoring of your authentic sexuality, or in loving your partner,
I am here to inspire you to be true to yourself and to guide you to co-create a life that holds your fears and fulfills your deepest desires.
It is my life’s work and an honor to support you through this journey.
So how do you know if you’re in the right place?
This one-night (or lunch or brunch) experience is for:
A group of friends, co-workers, or community group
who want to address topics kept in the shadows by bringing them into the light.
Couples who share dinners, vacations, and challenges
who are willing to support one another by also looking at themselves.
Birthday soirees, bachelorette parties, pleasure parties, divorce celebrations, dating launches
for people who want or have a reason to get together to celebrate pleasure and explore more.
Queer people, straight people, open people, and people with other progressive dynamics who want to live authentic and aligned
and want to explore who they are and what they want outside of dominant paradigms.
On this two-hour (or more) adventure, you’ll be supported with:
Your pick of theme, topic, or interest
Your choice of container type as talk, workshop, demo, and/or general Q&A
Options for curated group guided practices, exercises, and/or resources for exploration
Opportunity for private one-on-one connections
Email follow-up
Invitations for future support
The purpose of this event is to
gently open to the idea of getting to know yourself,
consider liberating your mind from harmful conditioning,
work with the idea of locating the erotic and sensitive through curiosity and play,
get a taste of the divine and sacred within yourself,
play with replacing fear and shame with power and safety,
and create a space where shifting from “it’s not possible” to “maybe” around intentionally crafting an ecology of thriving
…so you can experience a vibrant and healthy relationship with yourself and with a partner.
For a Fireside Event, The investment is:
$450 USD for 90 minutes
$150 each additional half hour
Maximum 25 people
In Person or Via Zoom
No travel fee within 30 miles
of San Jose, California, USA
Or if you need a different setup, let’s talk.
Answers to Your Most Common Questions:
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A minimum of an hour and a half provides enough time to build trust, get to know one another, do a practice, and/or offer some private one-on-one time.
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A two-hour curated talk, seminar, workshop, discussion, Q&A, and/or demonstration.
I may bring props, guides, or other items. -
I am a Certified Integrated Sex, Love and Relationship Coach also specializing in Relationship Coaching through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality.
I continue my studies pursuing additional specializations as a Tantric Sex Coach, Jade Egg Coach, and Men's Coach.
I have a Masters Degree in Communication Studies with a focus on Women’s Studies and Pedagogy, which has facilitated me in teaching college classes and workshops on interpersonal communication, small group communication, critical thinking, and argumentation.
I am also a gentle, restorative, and yin Yoga instructor, having studied with dozens of acupuncturists, chiropractors, yoga teachers, and educators in various disciplines. -
I support people with the most effective teachings steeped in neuroscience, holistic healing, trauma resolution, and modern coaching blended with ancient wisdoms.
I use embodied exercises, practices, and toy/tools as I guide people to uncover blocks, fears, and resistance and how to hold, heal, and integrate them to reveal the wholeness and health that is within you.
The VITA™ (Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach) Method is often where I start.
Foundational beliefs of this method are:
> Sexuality is sacred, beautiful, powerful, and natural
> Pure love is the primary force that sustains us
> Meaningful relationships are necessary for a joyful life
Holistic tools working with the felt sense around awareness, mindfulness, guided meditation, breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma resolution, energy work, sounding, and movement support us to resolve even the deepest challenges. -
Not at all.
We will discuss sex, love, and relationships and reference anatomy, but everyone will be clothed and remain clothed.
Some people experience some discomfort with discussing these topics, which is understandable.
I invite you to share what you’re experiencing either with the group or with me privately—each event is a held as a brave space to share openly, even if that means naming that it feels awkward.
