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Three Steps I Wish None Of Us Had To Take
Well.
I’m going to say the most vulnerable thing.
(Content warning/trigger warning: sexual assault)
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This is How To Invite Heartbrokenness To Teach You
I have been deeply grieving the last several weeks and letting my body show me how to forgive myself and others, how to heal, and how to love.
There's no pushing or forcing, no "should" or "shouldn't."
There's a deep surrender to "This is how I feel right now...This is how it is in this moment."
None of Us Wants to Be Abandoned...and how I want us to love more and deeper
A client wrote to me recently and asked,
"Can you help me to want her less...care about her less...and love her less than I do so that I am not putting pressure on her to communicate with me or have to be intimate with me emotionally?
Is that realistic?"
Does Your Relationship Err on the Side of Caution or Take Risks?
How are you doing?
How are you really doing?
I'm not the type to ask if I didn't really care.
So I honestly invite you to hit reply and share with me what you're really experiencing, really noticing in terms of your sensations, emotions, and thoughts.
This is Why You Can't Solve Your Relationship Problems
Many years ago, I found myself laid off from my teaching job, caring for two young children, and floundering.
Oh, yeah. And my spouse and I were fighting.
I would yell at him from the doorway while he was sitting on the couch looking at me blankly.
Then I would leave in a rage, wondering where I could go to figure things out and wondering who would understand.
Here's What Happened Before We Recorded This Week's Podcast
I didn't want to record this week's podcast.
It was time, though.
In fact, we were already a day past deadline.
I said no.
5 Things #MeToo Needs You To Heal In Your Relationship
When I shared with my partner that the foundation of my sex life has been guilt and pressure and performing pleasure for the benefit of lovers I've been with...
It didn't go well.
My partner and I were frozen around what to do after this revelation.
What did it mean about our relationship?
5 Things You Can Do To Reclaim Your Relationship
I invite you to turn and look at your partner.
Maybe you just need to look up, and there they are across from you.
If you can't see your partner from your vantage point and you're in the same space, carry this email with you and go find them.
If your partner and you are in different locations, I invite you to scroll to a picture of them.
Bring Out Your Partner's Worst to Discover Their Truth (Here's How)
We all know what love feels like.
Your chest expands. It feels full. You feel light and clear. Your smile can't get any bigger. Your heart may even feel like it's cracking and breaking open to emerge even fuller than before. Your bones melt. Your insides are warm.