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This is How To Hold Yourself When Others Can't
I'm not sure I've ever experienced being more lonely than I have in the last several months.
Not alone...
But lonely.
That certain kind of loneliness that exists when I'm with other people
This is Why You Can't Solve Your Relationship Problems
Many years ago, I found myself laid off from my teaching job, caring for two young children, and floundering.
Oh, yeah. And my spouse and I were fighting.
I would yell at him from the doorway while he was sitting on the couch looking at me blankly.
Then I would leave in a rage, wondering where I could go to figure things out and wondering who would understand.
Gwen Stefani sings, What You Waiting For?
I've been waiting.
I've been holding back.
I've been keeping things to myself.
I've been collecting little stones and rocks of thoughts and emotions and experiences and sensations.
This Is Why I Worry About Being Normal (and its effects on my relationship....)
Am I...normal?
This is a question I've asked myself many times around many different things.
If I dig deeper and ask myself what's underneath this question, it's about being belonging.
It's about being worthy.
Who Do You Talk To?
Many years ago, I found myself laid off from my teaching job, caring for two young children, and floundering.
Oh, yeah. And my spouse and I were fighting.
I would yell at him from the doorway while he was sitting on the couch looking at me blankly. Then I would leave in a rage, wondering where I could go to figure things out and wondering who would understand.