Blog
Connection Doesn't Happen at Warp Speed; It Requires Space
I am all over the place. Maybe you can relate.
My brain is foggy.
My body is unsteady.
My desires are inarticulable.
This is How You Remember Who You Are and Explore Tantra As Playful
Sometimes I forget that I went 30-something years without ever experiencing orgasm.
Sometimes I forget I am a certified Tantric Sex Coach.
Sometimes I forget that we're here for the full-spectrum experience of being human.
I don't want to be courageous. I don't want to do hard things.
Over the last two years, my oldest child (and not much of a child anymore) has been learning how to run a business around owning, raising, and selling a goat.
Twice a week she was going to the ranch to take care of her goat while splitting chores and responsibilities with other kids learning to do the same thing.
Last week she sold her goat at auction...and for quite the profit.
This is how I knew my relationship needed to shift....
I didn't know what to do.
I didn't know how to figure out what to do.
I was feeling emotions, sensations...having tons of thoughts.
Everything was spinning and whirling around.
Gwen Stefani sings, What You Waiting For?
I've been waiting.
I've been holding back.
I've been keeping things to myself.
I've been collecting little stones and rocks of thoughts and emotions and experiences and sensations.